I am REALLY a Crotty..

As I begin the next phase of my life, I find that those Crotty 'no frills' genes are really part of who I am.

When I started looking thru the accumulation of over 40 years of marriage, I initially wanted to save everything. As I go thru it each time, more and more 'stuff' is getting discarded, ready to be sold at a garage sale, or donated. I finally realized that my memories are not in 'things', but in the memories I will carry with me wherever I go.

I recently sent my daughter Robin a text asking her if she wanted something. She replied that yes, she would like it, but the Crotty in her says no!! So, she declined whatever item it was, and really only wants things that remind her of her home here and her Dad. I think Kevin is realizing too that it is possible to have too many things that really don't mean that much.

Another "Anna" thought...I have decided to take minimal furniture mainly because it seems foolish to drag with me what I will not need. I will be starting my apartment in Jacksonville with only my recliners, no sofa! It reminded me of a post Mary Ann made that Anna was the only person she ever knew who had no sofa in their living room. Mary Ann...I know you are up there laughing!!

I will never start pitching family heirlooms and pictures out of the attic window though!!

Daniel Cappello

Daniel Cappello is a great-grandson of Richard and Julia Crotty. He is the founder of 47 Ventures - a creative consulting company. Dan draws on an encompassing career that has spanned the worlds of media, politics, design, philanthropy, fashion, and the arts to offer clients a uniquely customized experience for their personal and business development needs.

Dan is currently the Fashion Editor of Quest Media, which publishes the cultural magazine Quest and the fashion magazine Q. He has worked on the editorial staffs of The New Yorker, George, and Harvard Current. He has covered and written about science, politics, literature, fashion, and etiquette for publications such as Playbill, Absolute New York, W, Ralph Lauren’s RL Magazine, and www.newyorker.com/. He has been a ballet critic for Dance and Pointe magazines, and has written and photographed for New York Social Diary.

Dan served President Bill Clinton as Director of Specialty Press and has worked on such creative projects as the redesign and installation of the permanent exhibit “Jacqueline Kennedy: First Lady,” at the John F. Kennedy Library and Museum, in Boston, and Richard Avedon’s final photographic portfolio, “Democracy.”

Dan Cappello received his B.A. degree in Government from Harvard University, where he also earned a Citation in French Language.

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